This was not the first book I read, nor necessarily recommend . .. Every Heart Restored was the first and still highly recommend. Now being on the other side and seeing True Victory of my husband over Sexual Sin including elicit sex, pornography and masturbation I can relate to much of the advice given to various women. When you want to run, when you ask why is this happening to me, when you feel like policing your husbands every move, when you have sneaking suspicions and you wonder whether to confront them or not, etc. . . this books helps to guide you through some of these processes. It is reassuring to know that you are not the first women, nor unfortunately the last whom has felt this way. The Gallaghers - Steve & Kathy offer solid Biblical truths with their PureLife Ministiry in Kentucky. Yes, there is victory to be had over sexual sin, and Yes your marriage can be restored if both you and your husband Put God First. As an FYI -We are using this book in conjunction with Every Heart Restored in Wives of Sexual Addicts Recovery Class in Metro Detroit Area.